Yesterday I went for a walk in a park with one of the many aunts, friends of Isabella, who gave her a beautiful hand-woven blanket.
In conversation, I expressed my fears that the child will do really need their dad, who left with a "agujerillo" in his personality by not having that constant father figure. She told me that he knows many single mothers, for whom your child is the best thing that has happened in my life and the children become good and happy people. That quiet on that side.
then continued: "I when I raised the idea of \u200b\u200bhaving a child one thought of the child, for them it is better to have a complete family and should not be so only with a parent and so never decided . Now I have 42 years and I know it's too risky a pregnancy, but I realize that I never thought in me that if being young and single is hard, being old and alone is even more difficult. I did not think a child is company is fulfillment in life. "
I kept a respectful silence while I rubbed his belly and felt the chair legs stretched.
The previous day, had been visited by one of the aunts, friends of Isabella, who brought us fruit and foods rich in protein. She speaks of his nephews, how are the joy of his family and told me the story of a friend who decided to become a single mother's uterus problems for children not to run out and then could not handle the responsibility, leaving the daughter care of his grandmother while she was still living in the same house but rounded all the time it was possible. I can deduce that this woman thought of her becoming pregnant at the time but not the baby.
Two cases, two very different lives but which reflect two ways of facing the same situation.
When I told God that if I was not a complete home if she wanted a child, not wanting to take care of pets and plants when he was older, but grandbabies, believed in me, but now the doors to welcome the baby I think about it ...
Anyway, although I had decided at the heart of one day being a single mother when the time came I was not ready and I q I have not. The situation in which my daughter has been generated has been a bit dull the environment should be complete joy. However, this blog is witness to the joy that is able to discover Life to help bring more life ...
Single mothers, some by choice, others by fear of loneliness, others for "ooops", others because they are separated and unmarried after. Need and how much support can expand our hearts to love those two little ones.
0 comments:
Post a Comment